If it works fine on your own but goes quiet with a partner, that is not damage — it is a nervous system that never got the right information. Your archetype is not a scorecard. It is a description of how you are already built: how you reach, how you hold, where your charge lives. Read it plainly and a lot of the old "something's wrong with me" story just falls off. It takes about a minute. Nothing to sign up for.
It reads from how you actually respond, not what sounds good — three instinct questions set your archetype, the rest add depth. Free, private, about a minute, no sign-up.